Burial and Cremation
Choosing Burial or Cremation
One of the key decisions following a death is whether to choose burial or cremation.
Sometimes this choice has been made in advance by the person who has died.
If not, it is usually made by the family.
Below are some comparisons for you to consider.
| Aspect | Traditional Burial | Natural Burial | Cremation |
| Location | Official cemetery, Urupa or traditional burial ground | Designated natural burial area within a cemetery | No location restrictions for ashes |
| Embalming | Often used | Not permitted | Optional |
| Casket | Usually, traditional timber or custom-made | Biodegradable only (e.g. untreated wood, woollen or shroud) | Varies |
| Environmental Impact | Higher | Minimal | Lower than burial, but emissions involved |
| Memorial Options | Headstone or grave marker | Tree planted, temporary wooden grave marker if desired no permanent headstone permitted |
Plaque, urn, cemetery plot, or chosen scattering site. |
| Cost | Includes plot, interment fee, equipment required for burial and often a headstone | Large plot, compost, registration and tree planting; no monument costs |
Generally, more cost-effective |
| Place of Remembrance | Gravesite with permanent grave marker or headstone | Restored native grove with optional natural marker or GPS location | Ashes can be scattered, buried, or kept; memorial optional |
Cultural and Spiritual Considerations
We understand that cultural, spiritual, and environmental values can be deeply personal and often guide end-of-life decisions.
Whether your family observes Tikanga Māori, Pasifika customs, or other cultural or religious beliefs and traditions, we are committed to working respectfully alongside you.
We also welcome those choosing natural or eco-conscious approaches, and we’ll ensure your loved one’s farewell reflects their values and wishes with dignity and care.
A Natural Return to the Earth
At the heart of natural burial is a deep respect for both the deceased and the environment. Nothing is introduced that could interfere with or disrupt natural processes. Instead, every element supports the health and regeneration of the local ecosystem.
Over time, the nutrients from the body are gently returned to the earth, absorbed by the surrounding soil and plant life. This process not only honours the natural cycle of life and death, but also nourishes native flora, fauna and tree groves. Helping to regenerate a thriving, living landscape – a true legacy of care.
To read our thoughts, explore and learn more about Natural Burials in New Zealand, follow the link below:
https://www.naturalburials.co.nz/funeral-directors/wairarapa-funerals-now-certified/
For full details on plots, costs, and guidelines, please visit the Carterton District Council’s Natural Burials page:
