Burial and Cremation

Choosing Burial or Cremation

One of the key decisions following a death is whether to choose burial or cremation. Sometimes this choice has been made in advance by the person who has died. If not, it is usually made by the family. Below are some comparisons for you to consider.

Aspect	Traditional Burial	Natural Burial	Cremation
Location	Official cemetery or traditional burial ground	Designated natural burial cemetery	No location restrictions for ashes
Embalming	Often used	Not used	Optional
Casket	Usually, traditional timber or custom-made	Biodegradable only (e.g. untreated wood, woollen or shroud)	Varies
Environmental Impact	Higher	Minimal	Lower than burial, but emissions involved
Memorial Options	Headstone or grave marker	Tree planted, no permanent headstone	Plaque, urn, cemetery plot, or chosen scattering site.
Cost	Includes plot, interment fee, and often a headstone	Large plot and tree planting; no monument costs	Generally, more cost-effective
Place of Remembrance	Gravesite with marker	Restored native grove with optional natural marker or GPS location	Ashes can be scattered, buried, or kept; memorial optional

Cultural and Spiritual Considerations

We understand that cultural, spiritual, and environmental values can be deeply personal and often guide end-of-life decisions.

Whether your family observes Māori tikanga, Pasifika customs, or other cultural or religious traditions, we are committed to working respectfully alongside you.

We also welcome those choosing natural or eco-conscious approaches, and we’ll ensure your loved one’s farewell reflects their values and wishes with dignity and care.

A Natural Return to the Earth

At the heart of natural burial is a deep respect for both the deceased and the environment. Nothing is introduced that could interfere with or disrupt natural processes. Instead, every element supports the health and regeneration of the local ecosystem.

Over time, the nutrients from the body are gently returned to the earth, absorbed by the surrounding soil and plant life. This process not only honours the natural cycle of life and death, but also nourishes native flora, fauna and tree groves. Helping to regenerate a thriving, living landscape — a true legacy of care.

We are fortunate to offer a dedicated natural burial area right here in the Wairarapa, within Clareville Cemetery (Carterton).

For full details on plots, costs, and guidelines, please visit the Carterton District Council’s Natural Burials page:

https://cdc.govt.nz/services/cemetery/natural-burials/

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